Are you a Mom who’s ready to break free from patriarchy and live in her feminine power?

Break the Cycle.
Become the Standard.

The old rules of love told you to be a “Good Girl.” To keep the peace at all costs, to never ask for too much while carrying it all, and be grateful for what you get. That patriarchal script was never written for your wholeness or your freedom — it was designed to keep you exhausted, over-functioning, and doubting yourself.

BUT THE TRUTH IS: YOU WERE NEVER MEANT TO LIVE THIS WAY.

The Old Way

→ Replaying conversations on loop, always asking if you were “too much” or “not enough.”
→ Feeling responsible for everyone else’s emotions while running on empty.
→ Over-giving, over-thinking, and over-explaining — only to be overlooked.
→ Waiting on texts that never come, pretending not to care when they finally do.
→ Twisting yourself into versions you barely recognize, just to feel wanted.
→ Saying “I’m fine” while secretly wondering if you’ll ever be chosen for real.

The New Way

→ Trusting your gut with calm confidence and never apologizing for it.
→ Taking responsibility for yourself — and letting others carry their own weight and responsibility.
→ Giving from overflow instead of depletion, while being valued for who you are.
→ Walking away faster when words and actions don’t align.
→ Showing up fully as yourself — magnetic, boundaried, sovereign, and secure.
→ Knowing you’re already chosen, because you’ve chosen yourself first.

Becoming the standard is about rewriting the rules
— but this time, they’re written by you, for you.

Right now, you can learn how to raise your standards so high that you never even consider settling.You can choose to finally love yourself first, so that you can trust that every connection reflects the value and vision you hold for the life you want.

Hey, love! I’m Elle —

A certified dating and relationship coach, feminine energy expert, and successful single mom entrepreneur who’s been there.

I know what it feels like to over-function, settle for “good enough,” and hustle for a sense of wholeness that never comes. I also know what it takes to rise out of that cycle — to stop playing small, trust yourself again, and finally call in the secure, nourishing love you deserve.

My life’s work is about helping women break free from “Good Girl” conditioning, heal their relationship with themselves, and step into the soft, sovereign, magnetic woman they were always meant to be.

Whether you’re dating, divorced, or redefining your standards — this is your space for the truth, the tools, and the feminine power that changes everything.

✨ Ready? Of course you are.

NEED ADVICE? I’VE GOT YOU.

ASK ELLE

This is advice for women and moms who are done with the status quo and ready for raw truth on dating after divorce, sex and situationships, breakups, boundaries — and everything in between.

ASK ELLE is where you get the unfiltered answers no one else is saying out loud with expert guidance, zero shame, and big-sister energy that refuses to play nice with patriarchy.

Send me your question and I’ll give you magnetic, no-BS advice that helps you center your dreams, walk away faster, trust your intuition, and rise fully into your feminine power.

  • "Elle Darcy is a revelation."

    In an industry of cookie cutter coaches, promising "multi six figures, boss babe," and a one size fits all approach to success; Elle Darcy is a revelation. Her approach to deep inner work is unparalleled: instead of asking us to look outside for numbers, symbols, or indicators of success; she asks us to look in. What does success feel like? How are we most fulfilled? What do we want? I have worked with Elle on reclaiming power and worthiness and moving past limiting beliefs.

    Every time we speak, it is transformative. She has a unique way of making you feel you're simultaneously talking to your best friend and a wise ancestor- she is irreverent, hilarious, and deeply knowledgeable in a variety of modalities.Nourishing yet firm, supportive yet probing; Elle helps women move past the inner blocks that are our most insidious enemies to emerge brighter, bolder, and more beautiful. Elle loves women- she sees their brilliance, and helps them to uncover it. Working with her will change your life–I promise.

    K.N.

  • "I will forever be grateful."

    Elle—you changed my heart, which changed my life. When I started seeing Elle I was feeling lost. I wish I had hired her from day one. Elle helped me in ways I didn't expect. She was able to help me tackle some fears around being seen that I didn't know I still had. Our blocks aren't often what we think they are and Elle has a gift for asking the right questions to get you to your answers. Plus, she got me clear on my vision, goals, and next steps. Turns out, I was ready to start fresh following my heart and passion.

    S.P.

  • "Literally Life-Changing"

    The coaching session we did together was LITERALLY LIFE-CHANGING for me–I felt like you absorbed everything I said, turned it into fucking gold, and gave it back to me as a solution instead of a problem. You are so insanely talented- coaching women is truly your calling.

    H.R.

  • "I think of Elle as a therapist."

    She helped me identify my strengths, define my voice and vision, and take the leap to fully immerse myself in love. More specifically, she showed me the importance of approaching showing up with more intention and less fear. I continue to have Elle’s voice in my head and am grateful. Elle was wonderful to work with and is a great champion of women and their success.

    S.I.

  • "My favorite teacher."

    I had a human design coaching with Elle after spending a year studying the basics with other experts. I was utterly stunned to discover - with her guidance - exactly what my design meant for me, my business, my money, and my impact. It was no longer about rules and boxes but expansion and understanding.

    M.W.