Are you a Mom who never wants to choose Mr. Wrong ever again?

YOU’RE IN THE RIGHT PLACE

Hey, love! I’m Elle.

CERTIFIED DATING + RELATIONSHIP COACH
FEMININE ENERGY EXPERT + YOGA TEACHER
SECURE + SUCCESSFUL SINGLE MOM

I help women break free from patriarchal conditioning, learn how to radically choose and trust themselves, and finally discover love that feels safe, sexy, and sovereign.

Whether you’re single and swiping, stuck in a deeply unfulfilling marriage, or standing at a crossroads asking what’s next for me — I’m so happy you’re here.

LET’S CONNECT

It’s Time to Rewrite the Rules of Love

Forget the old script. The one that told you to be a “Good Girl,” to not make waves, and to be everything for everyone else. It’s time to write your own damn rules.

Through private coaching, my signature Date Like A Mother™ course, and transformational tools, I’ll help you:

💡 Break the cycle of second-guessing yourself and finally trust your gut without apology

🚫 Say goodbye to “pick me” energy and step into your power as the chooser, not the chosen

🔥 Stop chasing mixed messages and start walking away faster instead

👑 Set boundaries that come from deep self-respect, not just self-protection

✨ Replace performing and pleasing with presence, pleasure, and real connection

💌 Recognize and release outdated conditioning that keeps you stuck in cycles of settling

🧠 Understand your attraction patterns and learn how to spot emotionally unavailable men

💖 Cultivate more feminine energy and become magnetic to secure, healthy love

🪩 Show up as your fullest, most vibrant self in dating, in partnership, and in every room you walk into

So whether you’re dating, divorcing, or redefining everything
— I’m ready to support you 100% of the way.

WANT FREE ADVICE ON YOUR LOVE LIFE?

ASK ELLE

An advice podcast for women and moms to ask their realest questions on dating after divorce, sex and situationships, breakups and boundaries — and everything in between.

ASK ELLE is where we talk about all of it with expert guidance, zero shame, and best friend energy that doesn’t play nice with patriarchy.

Write to me below to get personalized, anonymous advice that helps you spot red flags, walk away faster, trust your intuition, and begin living from your feminine power.

  • "Elle Darcy is a revelation."

    In an industry of cookie cutter coaches, promising "multi six figures, boss babe," and a one size fits all approach to success; Elle Darcy is a revelation. Her approach to deep inner work is unparalleled: instead of asking us to look outside for numbers, symbols, or indicators of success; she asks us to look in. What does success feel like? How are we most fulfilled? What do we want? I have worked with Elle on reclaiming power and worthiness and moving past limiting beliefs.

    Every time we speak, it is transformative. She has a unique way of making you feel you're simultaneously talking to your best friend and a wise ancestor- she is irreverent, hilarious, and deeply knowledgeable in a variety of modalities.Nourishing yet firm, supportive yet probing; Elle helps women move past the inner blocks that are our most insidious enemies to emerge brighter, bolder, and more beautiful. Elle loves women- she sees their brilliance, and helps them to uncover it. Working with her will change your life–I promise.

    K.N.

  • "I will forever be grateful."

    Elle—you changed my heart, which changed my life. When I started seeing Elle I was feeling lost. I wish I had hired her from day one. Elle helped me in ways I didn't expect. She was able to help me tackle some fears around being seen that I didn't know I still had. Our blocks aren't often what we think they are and Elle has a gift for asking the right questions to get you to your answers. Plus, she got me clear on my vision, goals, and next steps. Turns out, I was ready to start fresh following my heart and passion.

    S.P.

  • "Literally Life-Changing"

    The coaching session we did together was LITERALLY LIFE-CHANGING for me–I felt like you absorbed everything I said, turned it into fucking gold, and gave it back to me as a solution instead of a problem. You are so insanely talented- coaching women is truly your calling.

    H.R.

  • "I think of Elle as a therapist."

    She helped me identify my strengths, define my voice and vision, and take the leap to fully immerse myself in love. More specifically, she showed me the importance of approaching showing up with more intention and less fear. I continue to have Elle’s voice in my head and am grateful. Elle was wonderful to work with and is a great champion of women and their success.

    S.I.

  • "My favorite teacher."

    I had a human design coaching with Elle after spending a year studying the basics with other experts. I was utterly stunned to discover - with her guidance - exactly what my design meant for me, my business, my money, and my impact. It was no longer about rules and boxes but expansion and understanding.

    M.W.