Are you a mom who’s ready to rewrite the rules — and become wealthy in life and love?

Break the Cycle.
Become the Standard.

The old rules of love and money told you to be a “Good Girl” — keep the peace at all costs, carry it all without complaint, never ask for too much, and be grateful for whatever you get.

This toxic, patriarchal script was never written for your freedom or joy.

It was designed to keep you exhausted, unhappy, over-functioning, and doubting yourself. But the truth is: YOU ARE MEANT FOR MORE

The Old Way

  • Replaying conversations on loop, wondering if you were too much or not enough

  • Feeling responsible for everyone else’s emotions while running on empty

  • Over-giving, over-thinking, and over-explaining — only to be overlooked

  • Twisting yourself into versions you barely recognize, just to feel wanted

  • Saying “I’m fine” while secretly wondering if you’ll ever be chosen for real

  • Staying in jobs that drain you because you need the paycheck

  • Accepting the first offer — salary, rent, relationship — out of fear there won’t be another

  • Believing the “soft life” comes from a man, not from yourself

The New Way

  • Trusting your gut with calm confidence — and never apologizing for it

  • Giving from overflow instead of depletion — and being valued for who you are

  • Walking away faster when words and actions don’t align

  • Showing up fully as yourself: magnetic, boundaried, sovereign, secure

  • Knowing you’re already chosen — because you chose yourself first.

  • Creating financial freedom so you can choose love from security, not survival

  • Negotiating more — in work, housing, and dating — because you know your worth.

  • Building wealth on your own terms, so your standards stay untouchable

Hey, love! I’m Elle —

A certified dating and relationship coach, feminine energy expert, and single mom millionaire who’s been there.

I know what it feels like to over-function, to settle for “good enough,” to hustle for scraps of love and money while secretly wondering if real freedom will ever come.

I also know what it takes to break that cycle — to stop playing small, build wealth, trust yourself again, and finally call in the secure, nourishing love you deserve.

My life’s work is helping women rewrite the old rules of money and love. To break free from “Good Girl” conditioning, heal their relationship with themselves, and step into the soft, sovereign, magnetic woman they were always meant to be.

Whether you’re dating, divorced, or determined to never settle again — this is your space for truth, strategic tools, and the feminine power that changes everything.

✨ Ready? Of course you are.

NEED ADVICE? I’VE GOT YOU.

ASK ELLE

This is advice for women and moms who are done with the status quo and ready for raw truth on dating after divorce, what “provider” men actually means, sex, boundaries — and everything in between.

ASK ELLE is where you get the unfiltered answers no one else is saying out loud with expert guidance, zero shame, and big-sister energy that refuses to play nice with patriarchy.

Send me your question and I’ll give you magnetic, no-BS advice that helps you center your dreams, walk away faster, trust your intuition, and rise fully into your feminine power.

  • "Elle Darcy is a revelation."

    In an industry of cookie cutter coaches, promising "multi six figures, boss babe," and a one size fits all approach to success; Elle Darcy is a revelation. Her approach to deep inner work is unparalleled: instead of asking us to look outside for numbers, symbols, or indicators of success; she asks us to look in. What does success feel like? How are we most fulfilled? What do we want? I have worked with Elle on reclaiming power and worthiness and moving past limiting beliefs.

    Every time we speak, it is transformative. She has a unique way of making you feel you're simultaneously talking to your best friend and a wise ancestor- she is irreverent, hilarious, and deeply knowledgeable in a variety of modalities.Nourishing yet firm, supportive yet probing; Elle helps women move past the inner blocks that are our most insidious enemies to emerge brighter, bolder, and more beautiful. Elle loves women- she sees their brilliance, and helps them to uncover it. Working with her will change your life–I promise.

    K.N.

  • "I will forever be grateful."

    Elle—you changed my heart, which changed my life. When I started seeing Elle I was feeling lost. I wish I had hired her from day one. Elle helped me in ways I didn't expect. She was able to help me tackle some fears around being seen that I didn't know I still had. Our blocks aren't often what we think they are and Elle has a gift for asking the right questions to get you to your answers. Plus, she got me clear on my vision, goals, and next steps. Turns out, I was ready to start fresh following my heart and passion.

    S.P.

  • "Literally Life-Changing"

    The coaching session we did together was LITERALLY LIFE-CHANGING for me–I felt like you absorbed everything I said, turned it into fucking gold, and gave it back to me as a solution instead of a problem. You are so insanely talented- coaching women is truly your calling.

    H.R.

  • "I think of Elle as a therapist."

    She helped me identify my strengths, define my voice and vision, and take the leap to fully immerse myself in love. More specifically, she showed me the importance of approaching showing up with more intention and less fear. I continue to have Elle’s voice in my head and am grateful. Elle was wonderful to work with and is a great champion of women and their success.

    S.I.

  • "My favorite teacher."

    I had a human design coaching with Elle after spending a year studying the basics with other experts. I was utterly stunned to discover - with her guidance - exactly what my design meant for me, my business, my money, and my impact. It was no longer about rules and boxes but expansion and understanding.

    M.W.