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How to Become a Feminine Feminist ™

10 SECRETS TO SECURE LOVE WITH FEMININE ENERGY & FEMINIST ETHICS

How to Become A Feminine Feminist

Being feminine does not mean submitting or shrinking. Being feminist does not mean man-hating or hardening.

You can be soft with standards. You can create secure love with polarity and without patriarchal nonsense.

This guide gives you the 10 self-honoring secrets every woman should know on embodying feminine energy without sacrificing sovereignty, standards, or herSELF.

Hey, I’m Elle!

Certified Relationship Coach
Energy & Polarity Expert
Trauma-Informed Yoga Teacher

💖 I’m here to help you...

Heal the hurt, stop the hustle, and the overcome the heartbreak — so you can finally break free form old patterns and attract love you’ve always deserved, without abandoning yourself ever again.

Shift out of survival mode and into deep self-trust — so you can listen to your intuition, feel safe in your body again, and confidently access your truth and feminine power, no matter who stays or goes.

Break patterns of over-giving, over-doing, and over-functioning — so you can heal your nervous system and set new standards that call in an aligned, grounded, masculine-led love.

Navigate dating, love, and relationships as a single, divorced, or separated mother — so you can stop holding everything and finally be the one that is held.

  • "Elle Darcy is a revelation."

    In an industry of cookie cutter coaches, promising "multi six figures, boss babe," and a one size fits all approach to success; Elle Darcy is a revelation. Her approach to deep inner work is unparalleled: instead of asking us to look outside for numbers, symbols, or indicators of success; she asks us to look in. What does success feel like? How are we most fulfilled? What do we want? I have worked with Elle on reclaiming power and worthiness and moving past limiting beliefs.

    Every time we speak, it is transformative. She has a unique way of making you feel you're simultaneously talking to your best friend and a wise ancestor- she is irreverent, hilarious, and deeply knowledgeable in a variety of modalities.Nourishing yet firm, supportive yet probing; Elle helps women move past the inner blocks that are our most insidious enemies to emerge brighter, bolder, and more beautiful. Elle loves women- she sees their brilliance, and helps them to uncover it. Working with her will change your life–I promise.

    K.N.

  • "I will forever be grateful."

    Elle—you changed my heart, which changed my life. When I started seeing Elle I was feeling lost. I wish I had hired her from day one. Elle helped me in ways I didn't expect. She was able to help me tackle some fears around being seen that I didn't know I still had. Our blocks aren't often what we think they are and Elle has a gift for asking the right questions to get you to your answers. Plus, she got me clear on my vision, goals, and next steps. Turns out, I was ready to start fresh following my heart and passion.

    S.P.

  • "Literally Life-Changing"

    The coaching session we did together was LITERALLY LIFE-CHANGING for me–I felt like you absorbed everything I said, turned it into fucking gold, and gave it back to me as a solution instead of a problem. You are so insanely talented- coaching women is truly your calling.

    H.R.

  • "I think of Elle as a therapist."

    She helped me identify my strengths, define my voice and vision, and take the leap to fully immerse myself in love. More specifically, she showed me the importance of approaching showing up with more intention and less fear. I continue to have Elle’s voice in my head and am grateful. Elle was wonderful to work with and is a great champion of women and their success.

    S.I.

  • "My favorite teacher."

    I had a human design coaching with Elle after spending a year studying the basics with other experts. I was utterly stunned to discover - with her guidance - exactly what my design meant for me, my business, my money, and my impact. It was no longer about rules and boxes but expansion and understanding.

    M.W.

ASK ELLE

This is place to ask your realest, messiest, wildest questions on love, dating, intimacy, boundaries, breakups, becoming HER — and everything in between.

Whether you’re:
— navigating an avoidant situationship
— learning how to release control + center you
— wanting to free yourself from toxic patterns + limiting beliefs
— making the shift from being chosen to being the chooser
— healing from a painful divorce or separation
— or just wondering if it will ever happen for you

ASK ELLE is where we talk about it all — with expert guidance, kind honesty, older sister sass, and zero judgment. No topic is too small, too weird, or too much.

On the pod, you’ll get personalized (anonymous) advice that’s grounded in feminine energy and feminist ethics, so that you can start leading from your power and stop playing into the patriarchy.